Heal shame.

Deepen intimacy.

Reclaim yourself.

Therapy for Sex & Sexuality, Relationships and Religious Trauma
in Pasadena, Los Angeles & Online

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 Healing happens when
we dare to slow down
and get curious.

One thing you
must learn.
The world was
made to be free in.

-David Whyte   

It can be wildly easy to get stuck in a life that just isn’t the right fit.

 

Many of us carry deeply ingrained messages from our past that make it difficult to embrace self-love and create lives and relationships where we can truly flourish.

 

Get Unstuck,

Come Into Yourself

 

Whether you are feeling trapped, stuck or just frustrated I am here to join you on your journey. Let’s start to make life something different.

With hearts and minds set on diversity and curiosity, together we can help you build a life that is more closely in alignment with the core of who you are. 

Together let’s heal the shame that stuffy religious teachings and outdated views on sex, sexuality and relationships demand.

Let’s work to deepen intimacy, whether that means honing in on your particular ways of being in relationships or invigorating your sex life.

Let’s help you reclaim yourself, allowing you to live more fully into the specific life that aligns with who you are.

 

It’s time to lean in, get curious and build the life you actually want!

One thing you
must learn.
The world was
made to be free in.

-David Whyte

What I Can Help You Navigate

Sex

Repeat after me. “‘Sex isn’t a dirty word.” But at some point you were probably told it is. Let’s break that stigma and talk about it! Ignite your bedroom and enliven passion and play!

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Sexuality

Feeling stuck? Sexuality, who we love, and how we do it are some of loudest things talked (and not talked) about. Gay, straight, bi, kinky or vanilla, let’s carve out space to lean into you!

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Relationships

Your relationships can be different than what you’ve been told. Relationships are too important to be controlled by outdated or bad-fit rules. Let’s hone in on the types of connection that’s right for you and the people you love.

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Religious Trauma

Trauma hits particularly hard, especially when it enters our spiritual lives. I can help you rediscover yourself and find freedom and healing.

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Anxiety & Depression

Feeling overwhelmed? Anxiety and depression can feel like they’re running the show. Let’s work together to calm the chaos and find your balance.

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Sometimes things
can get crazy.

It’s my job to
help you discover
the life you
want, and then
help you build it.

 

I Can Help You:

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Heal Shame

Shame can feel like an invisible barrier, rooted in harmful messages from society, past experiences, or religious teachings. Through sex therapy, relationship counseling, and religious trauma therapy, we can address these beliefs and help you find freedom. Whether you’re in Pasadena or would like to meet online across California, you can embrace self-acceptance and live without the weight of shame holding you back.

Deepen Intimacy

True intimacy grows in spaces of safety, trust, and understanding. Through therapy, we can explore the challenges that hinder emotional and physical connection, improving communication and reigniting closeness. Whether you’re in Pasadena or accessing online therapy in California, we’ll work together to help you build deeper, more fulfilling relationships—with your partner or partners and yourself.

Reclaim Yourself

Life’s challenges can distance you from your true self, leaving you feeling lost or stuck. Through religious trauma therapy, LGBTQ+-affirming counseling, or relationship support, we can help you reconnect with your identity and your values. Whether we meet at my office in Pasadena or online with you anywhere California, we’ll work to help explore ways to reclaim your authenticity and build a life more aligned with who you are.

Frequency Asked Questions:

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What happens in therapy sessions?

Each session is tailored to your needs. We’ll discuss your goals and create a plan to help you achieve them, whether it’s improving communication in your relationship, addressing sexual challenges, or healing from trauma.

Do you work with individuals, couples, or groups?

I work with individuals, couples, and people in alternative relationships. Therapy is customized to suit your unique circumstances and goals.

Is online therapy effective?

Yes! Online therapy provides a convenient and flexible option for clients across California. It’s just as effective as in-person therapy for addressing the challenges you’re facing.

What makes your approach unique?

My approach is rooted in compassion, inclusivity, and a deep understanding of the intersections between sexuality, relationships, and religious trauma. I provide a safe, affirming space for all clients, especially those in the LGBTQ+ community or navigating alternative relationships.

Ready to Take the First Step Toward Healing and Growth?

Therapy is a courageous and powerful tool for change. Whether you’re looking to improve your sex life, embrace your sexuality, strengthen your relationships, or heal from religious trauma, I’m here to guide and support you.

Reach out today to schedule a consultation and begin your journey toward a more fulfilling, connected, and joyful life. Therapy is available in Pasadena and online across California.

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Locations

Greg Kilpatrick, LMFT, CST

16 N Marengo Ave.
Ste. 411
Pasadena, Ca 91101

&

Online Anywhere in Calif.

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Gregory D Kilpatrick, MSMFT, LMFT is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT 123790) in the State of California.

All services are provided by Zephyr, A Marriage and Family Therapy Professional Corporation, of which Gregory D Kilpatrick, LMFT, CST is the President, CEO and an employee.

© Zephyr, A MFT PC, 2017-

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