by Greg Kilpatrick | May 7, 2025 | Relationships, Sex, Sexuality
I’ve been thinking a lot lately about how the language we use to talk about sexuality and gender so often falls short, both in therapy spaces and everyday conversation. I see it in my work, in my relationships, and honestly, even sometimes in my own thinking when it...
by Greg Kilpatrick | Mar 31, 2025 | Relationships, Sex
So here’s something that doesn’t get talked about enough: a well-done breakup can actually be a form of care (for yourself and the other person/people). Most people assume that ending a relationship has to be dramatic, avoidant or mean. But it doesn’t have...
by Greg Kilpatrick | Mar 20, 2025 | Relationships, Sex, Sexuality
A couple of weeks ago, I was chatting with a few therapists about how sex has been showing up in our sessions. Sexual response and desire were two LOUD topics that came up! And it comes as no surprise. Response and desire are two fixtures of sexuality that are rarely...
by Greg Kilpatrick | Jan 20, 2025 | Relationships, Trauma
A few weeks ago, I was talking with a client about how weird things had felt between them and their partner since a wildfire swept through their area. And not just emotionally—practically, too. Their routines were off, their communication felt strained, and intimacy...
